Simply Simplify Your Life

De-clutter your life....they call it nowadays feng-shui I believe. Creating a simple life isn't always simple for some. Stopping junk mail or tossing out superfluous belongings you don't need is the easy part. Moving to a different or smaller home or cleaning up your relationships can take much longer and be among the most difficult things you ever have to do. You know..the impossible unfulfilling marriage or a relationship that isn't going anywhere that is causing you stress and pain. If you're in such a relationship and you've tried to fix it and can't...get out! Cleaning up relationships applies to friends too. Perhaps it's time to move on from a friendship like I did...that no longer works for you. Ending a friendship doesn't necessarily require a major confrontation...sometimes it's easier to retreat and simply fade out of someone else's life. When you think about it....the "getting out" of a bad relationship can be relatively easy. It is the "deciding to get out" that is often the hard part. No other thing you could possibly do will simplify your life as quickly or as completely as getting out of a relationship that isn't working.
Do both of you a favor......"letting go" is one of the hardest thing for me. I always think "somehow I can fix it"....but now i know I can't. Maybe letting go is as important as "letting someone in your door." Noone should be held against their will....that would be like "making a prisoner of love".....and we know that is eggzactly the opposite of love as love is allowing th one you love to be free!
Put on some Mozart and start making your list of what you need to get rid of.......
Peace and Love.....
Sunamizen