Acceptance

It is both naive and presumptious to tell a man what he should do in order to be with you. He is who he is. Are you willing to accept that? Cuz if not, you better run baby because men don't change especially if they are over 50. You can't think that if you love them just a bit better or more that they will be more emotional or share their feelings or open up..or get a job.....if they are that way when you meet them, they are always going to be that way. Your Love is not the magic bullet that will make him different sooo don't get your hopes up and give it the three month "flip it over like a pancake" rule....Yeah I know...but he was so much different and more loving in the beginning..well it is natural law that people are on their best behavior in the beginning but they gradually slip back into who they really are so wait until then and make your move....run as fast as you can in the other direction or love him just the way he is..but my advice is..Don't get Married....
Married People Seem Miserable To Me
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