For Women (or men) Who Love Too Much.......
When you stop taking care of him and take care of yourself instead, the man in your life may become very angry and accuses you of not caring about him anymore. This goes for both sexes.
This anger generates from his panic at having to become responsible for his own life. As long as he can fight with you, make you promises, or try to win you back, his struggle is outside, with you, and not inside with himself. Give him back his life and take back your own.
Say prayers for the willingness, the strength and the courage to look honestly at your past and at your part in it.
When you confront someone from whom you need a certain kind of response, you are not confronting at all--you are begging, perhaps with anger. The more you need a specific reaction from an individual, the more dependent you are on that individual for your own well being--and the more you are likely to encounter only his or her defenses.
That should be good for today.
Silent Today
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